Human beings are the best creation of God and the reason behind? We are made up of diverse emotional complexities. It takes time to understand oneself and in order to do so, one should do self-research. We’ve heard of two kinds of people, the extroverts and the introverts. The extroverts are one supposed to be open enough, they don’t like keeping things hidden and they come out with whatever they have in their mind and heart.
They don’t believe in spending time with oneself and enjoy the silence. They believe one should always be lively enough to speak about themselves. On the other hand, introverts are the one who loves to devote time to themselves rather than people. They don’t mind being unsocial and they love to date their own selves. They usually hate the loud mouths and they’d love to welcome another introvert in their life.
Do you know what happens when you get the traits of both the personalities? You either become an introverted extrovert or an extroverted introvert. I have encountered people in life who happens to have the flair of both. I had to study myself a little bit; my thought process and my actions don’t always go hand in hand. I gradually discovered this fact that neither am I an extrovert or an introvert because I happen to be an extroverted introvert.
I love hanging around with people and share my thoughts and feelings with them but to an extent only. I love to have companions around and chill out with them but amidst all the chaos I feel lost at times, I feel it’s not worth sharing all my thoughts and feelings with everyone since no one can actually give you the peace and serenity you want. At the end of the day when you get back home and you realize you need nothing other than coffee and yourself, you realize you yourself are your best friend.
No one can really understand me the way I understand myself since you can never explain yourself to anyone or rather you cannot ever comprehend yourself completely in this life. And that’s not a problem at all. Stay what you are, and don’t feel any sort of insecurities when it comes to yourself. I realized that I’m the best version of myself and I’ll remain so. You really don't have to alter yourself in accordance with the wish of anybody. Be yourself and let yourself flow with your own self.