No such person is born on earth who has got the complete capability of expressing oneself. Human beings are the most complicated and confused creation of The Almighty. Such strange are we that we don’t think of anything else when we’re loved, cared and listened to. The problem doesn’t lie in that, the problem lies when you start investing a lot of feelings in someone without even having any sort of intention as such.
Developing feelings is something involuntary, it happens when you naturally get attached to someone. The initial period is quite an innocent moment when you don’t realize what exactly is going to be the outcome or the consequences. Things become a little heavy when you realize that a particular person is no more a friend, you’ve established feelings more than that of a normal friend and that you really can’t express it now. You fear that if you reveal the inner feelings, you’d either lost the other person as a good friend or would get rejected.
The feeling is something inexplicable, the more you bury it in yourself the more you wither from inside. You feel mentally drained when you’re unable to speak your heart out. You get to talk a lot about other stuff but when it comes to the point where there demands a need for expression, we stand spell-bound. There’s no such obvious reason why we don’t open up but I guess for the generation its high time to be bold and confront the one who they develop intimacy with.
The unexpressed feelings often lead to depression and at times to disastrous consequences. It’s time to prepare yourself not to worry about the consequences but to take care of one’s own feeling now. Bring that thing out and who knows may be that was all that the other person was waiting for.
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