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Ryan Stephens is the husband, father, and blogger at the site “Dialed in men”. He started this site in 2016 in order to pass along the things he is learned to son so that he has all the tools he needs to navigate live. “The ultimate goal is an ever-growing, scientifically-based blueprint for him to have health, wealth and success—and for this site to be a resource for him if anything ever happened to us,” he writes, noting that much of his advice is applicable to all men in general.

He posts about good parenting, how to maintain the finance and even how to fight from the depression, but in his recent post which was actually written by his wife, Alaina- on his “six rules for material success, which catch the most attention.

Let us read his six rules starting from the very first:

<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">1.) No one should ever hear anything bad about your spouse from you. <br><br>It's one thing to joke with friends about something trivial and quite another to demean your spouse's character.<br><br>Know the difference and always discuss the latter with your spouse and no one else.</p>— Ryan Stephens 🧭 (@ryanstephens) <a href="https://twitter.com/ryanstephens/status/1103115751538462721?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 6, 2019</a></blockquote><script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>

Rule Number One: “No one should ever hear anything bad about your spouse from you. Its one thing to joke with friends about something trivial and quite another to demean your spouse’s character. Know the difference and always discuss the latter with your spouse and no one else.”

<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">2.) Over communicate.<br><br>You cannot read each other’s minds. <br><br>Never assume the other person knows what you meant. <br><br>Give each other the benefit of the doubt when miscommunications happen.<br><br>Double check if necessary.</p>— Ryan Stephens 🧭 (@ryanstephens) <a href="https://twitter.com/ryanstephens/status/1103115752339574784?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 6, 2019</a></blockquote><script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>

Rule Number Two: “Over-communicate. You cannot read each other’s minds. Never assume the other person knows what you meant. Give each other the benefit of the doubt when miscommunications happen. Double check if necessary.”

<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">3.) Try new things together.<br><br>Even if one of you is typically more adventurous than the other, have fun with it. <br><br>Trying new things gets an individual out of their comfort zone and is often easier as a couple, allowing you both to grow stronger together.</p>— Ryan Stephens 🧭 (@ryanstephens) <a href="https://twitter.com/ryanstephens/status/1103115753157525505?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 6, 2019</a></blockquote><script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>

Rule Number Three: “Try new things together. Even if one of you is typically more adventurous than the other, have fun with it. Trying new things gets an individual out of their comfort zone and is often easier as a couple, allowing you both to grow stronger together.”

<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">4.) Be each other’s champion. Celebrate wins and encourage each other.<br><br>Bring home champagne after a promotion at work, back each other up when engaging in that battle with your heathen toddler, work out together, etc.<br><br>Never cut the other person down when they're struggling.</p>— Ryan Stephens 🧭 (@ryanstephens) <a href="https://twitter.com/ryanstephens/status/1103115753862119424?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 6, 2019</a></blockquote><script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>

Rule Number Four: “Be each other’s champion. Celebrate wins and encourage each other. Bring home champagne after a promotion at work, back each other up when engaging in that battle with your heathen toddler, work out together, etc. Never cut the other person down when they’re struggling.”

<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">5.) Be grateful for each other’s contributions.<br><br>Whether it be money, time, chores, childcare, or anything else, no one contribution is greater than another. <br><br>And don’t keep score. <br><br>If you truly value each other’s input, then the scorecard shouldn’t (and doesn’t) matter.</p>— Ryan Stephens 🧭 (@ryanstephens) <a href="https://twitter.com/ryanstephens/status/1103115754701029376?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 6, 2019</a></blockquote><script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>

Rule Number Five: “Be grateful for each other’s contributions. Whether it be money, time, chores, childcare, or anything else, no one contribution is greater than another. And don’t keep score. If you truly value each other’s input, then the scorecard shouldn’t (and doesn’t) matter.”

<blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">6. Trust and respect each other. <br><br>Especially in front of others, including your children.<br><br>If you do not respect your spouse in front of other people, why should those people respect your spouse? <br><br>Enough said.</p>— Ryan Stephens 🧭 (@ryanstephens) <a href="https://twitter.com/ryanstephens/status/1103115755481120769?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 6, 2019</a></blockquote><script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script>

Rule Number Six: Trust and respect each other. Especially in front of others, including your children. If you do not respect your spouse in front of other people, why should those people respect your spouse? Enough said.”

Author-Simran Bhatnagar

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